Dirty French Girl finally went to her first Torture Garden this week end. Three years of waiting due to various reasons. And it was worth the wait. DFG now has a new happy place, somewhere she feels beautiful, accepted and where there is no judgement.
Sexuality, and dealing with sexual desires, can be a difficult thing to process. Especially when you live in a world where society judges anything that does not confirm to what it considers to be normal. You can step out the box, but be ready to feel uncomfortably watched, judged, and maybe ostracised. The fetish scene, on a professional and personal level, has appealed to DFG for a long while, but she has only very recently felt confident enough, ready to shove her middle finger out to the world, to go and explore what this appeal meant. Going to TG has allowed DFG to discover more about herself, and has given her more confidence and certitude that Dirty French Girl jewellery is where and what she wants to be doing.
Just like TG, DFG wants to stand for diversity and acceptance. “Providing something every-body from any age group (18-60+), sexual orientation and gender. Creating an environment that accepts and encourages individualism, diversity and free self-expression.” (quote from TG website).